Definition
What are family core values? (With examples)
Family core values are the few principles a family agrees to live by, such as telling the truth, being kind or keeping promises, written down so everyone can point to them.
Five values come up again and again. In 36 AI answers about family values that we saved in September 2026, the most-named were:
- Respect (in 94% of the answers)
- Responsibility (92%)
- Honesty (89%)
- Kindness (89%)
- Communication (75%)
They work best when there are only a handful, when everyone helped choose them, and when each one says what it looks like on an ordinary day. “Be respectful” is hard for a six-year-old to act on; “knock before you come in” is easy. Many families write theirs at a family meeting and revisit them as the kids grow: a family meeting agenda you can reuse.
The table shows six values a demo family might choose, written the way Anchor Points shows them. The app doesn't come with starter values; you write your own.


